Self-Care Check-in
We have all heard the saying you cannot pour from an empty cup. How can I show up for you all if I am not showing up for myself? Sometimes I feel like you need a mental reset and refocus. This is that week for me. I need a reset when it comes to my health and fitness, my prayer life, and a total reset on how I utilize my time. Let me be the first to tell you it is okay to recognize areas you are undone because we do not have to be fully together. I am thriving to continuously evolve not thriving for perfection. Part of my mental reset and refocus is taking care of myself. Below I will be sharing some self-care tips that I will be initiating this week:
Bonita Applebum
Statement pieces are perfect to add variety to your wardrobe. Show up at the office or dinner in this fiery red pencil skirt and see if you turn heads. Honestly, I have not bought a pencil skirt in a very long time, but when I saw this one I knew I had to have it! Do you feel comfortable in bold colors or do you shy away from them?
Morning Bliss
Good morning loves,
“You’ll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine.” — John C. Maxwell
How you start your day has a lot to do with how the rest of your day will go. Making simple changes in your daily routine can make a huge difference in overall productivity and success. Working from home has indeed made me lazy or I’ll say more carefree. Honestly creating and sticking to a morning routine is tough. Nonetheless as I’ve gotten more on my plate as an influencer/blogger it’s important for me to take full advantage of my time to ensure I’m meeting my goals. Here lately my morning routine consists of the following:
Pumpkin Spice
Hellllllo fall!
I’m not going to lie this Georgia weather completely took me by surprise it’s actually cool! I wasn’t expecting this weather until maybe the end of October beginning November, but here we are lol Fall is one of my favorite seasons.
Nonetheless, I’m loving it! It’s something about the changing of the leaves the beautiful colors that get you excited for the transition. Whether you are ready or not nature is saying it’s time for a change!
Effortlessly Edgy
Everyone has that one piece that makes you feel like you that chick!! For the fall and winter months for me, it’s definitely a faux leather moto jacket. I literally feel like a rock star it’s just something about the leather. Like honey let me gone head and get on somebody motorcycle lol!
As we begin to transition into a new season it’s the perfect time to shop for fall pieces! With this time of COVID we may have found a small silver lining as we approach cooler months. Outdoor activities are becoming the safest and with cooler temperatures ahead the moto jacket is a must-have!
Falling Forward
“You have to cherish things in a different way when you know the clock is ticking, you are under pressure” - Chadwick Boseman
The shocking and painful loss of Chadwick really caught everyone off guard. His accomplishments at the young age of 43 were truly remarkable. In such a short time here you could tell he was living every day with purpose. Honestly, for me losing good people that I feel had so much more to give always hits home for me. It always reminds me that we are truly on borrowed time another day is not promised.
Where’s My Pot of Gold?
Y’all I’ll be 29 tomorrow, and I can’t believe I’m entering the last year of my twenties. So thankful for all the lessons and setbacks. In talking with many of my close friends who are beautiful, educated, loving, and all-around amazing women everyone is asking where’s my pot of gold?!
Fringe Benefits
So my first major collaboration and I get to work with Torrid! I am extremely thankful and loved this opportunity. I literally fell in love with this look from head to toe! So let’s get into it!! I’ll be sharing the benefits of each item you see in this fun look.
Checkmate
I don’t know much about chess but I do know when you say “checkmate” it’s over somebody is about to win! Me personally I’m trying to be on the winning side. Here lately I’ve been asking myself more and more how do I position myself for success. And this dress just makes me feel like a boss!! We will get into those details later honey.
Styled by Love E
Have you ever thought about a personal stylist? I had an amazing opportunity to collaborate with an Atlanta based personal styling app. The experience was sooo fun and I felt like a celebrity!
I absolutely love to shop but what about someone shopping for me. Honestly I knew my body would be a bit of a challenge, but they definitely exceeded my expectations!
Poetic Justice
I’ve learned that suppressing your truth is not keeping the peace. I spent a lot of time saying yes to things I wanted to say no too. In hindsight, I was afraid of the backlash and hated any type of argument.
Back to the Basics
Sometimes getting back to the basics can apply to so many areas in life also your wardrobe too. I love having statement pieces, but having key basics will withstand all the trends. Basics, are items you can practically wear for any occasion, dressing them up or down to suit your needs and style. Basics can be combined with a great cardigan, belt, blazer, heels, flats, or tennis shoes the options are literally endless.
Productivity Tips New Bloggers/Influencers
So I’ve been at this influencer/blogger life since February and let me tell you it’s hard work!! With having a 9-5 it’s seriously tough to balance. I am no expert but I’m excited to share with you things I’ve learned so far.
Just Peachy
If you are looking for that dress you can wear to any occasions and still look cute, classy, and stylish. Well look no further! This dress can be worn to work, drink with the girls, date night, church, brunch, baby shower, should we continue? It features a stretchy crepe material, a matching belt, 3/4 sleeves and a midi length.
Tropical Dreams
I don’t know about y’all but I would love a tropical vacation right about now! On somebody island drink in my hand, bathing suit, soaking up the sun. Instead, I’m home but it’s nothing like a great sundress to give you those vacation vibes.
Comfy & Cute
Versatility is always a huge plus when it comes to clothing. Something where you can just be free. Whether you are feeling bloated or know you gone need some extra stretch to eat your favorite meal in peace! These buttons and zippers don’t want you to be great.
Black Girl Joy
When I first launched my blog and began to share more on social media my first thought was “What will people think?” Will people think I am seeking attention? Then I remembered we oftentimes lose the battle in our minds. Our mind can be a dangerous place and can lead to our own demise or success. Today I say silence the noise and go for it!
All Tied Up
So, we officially made it through the first 6 months of 2020! (pops imaginary bottle) We deserve a drink! How are y’all feeling? We have lived through some crazy times. I told somebody I can’t wait to tell my kids, “Do you know what we went through in 2020, you better be happy you can go to school!” Despite all that has happened I am still optimistic and excited about the future.
Curvy Girls Workout Too - 3 Ways to Stay Motivated
I like the saying control what you can control. At this point in my life something I can control is my overall health and wellness. I love the way my body feels and looks when I am working out. I have more energy and feel even more confident in my clothes. Quite frankly during this pandemic working out has been one of the things that has helped me maintain some normalcy.
Out of the Blue
Be gentle with yourself we are literally living through a world pandemic and a historical revolution - Please do not beat yourself up if your mental health is not the best right now.
I saw a meme that said when my kids ask me about 2020 I’m gone have to pour up a drink first. If this ain’t the truth hoooonnnnnneeeeeyyyy!! I think literally every month has outdid the next it’s been one thing after another.